The Motivational Café

"The Six-Letter Word That Will Change Your Life."

by Jason Gracia

If you tell yourself something enough, you start to believe it. It doesn't matter how true it is; repetition will make sure it sets in just as if it were undeniable fact.

The trouble arrives, as I'm sure you'll agree, when you believe in something that is not only untrue but also keeps you from the things you want most. Even the strongest of desires can be beaten down if enough myths stand in its way.

And today's issue is focused on one of the strongest myths around, one that lurks in the minds of millions. If you believe it in your heart, you can't get everything you want.

But if you can break free from its grip, things will never be the same. You'll find the motivation you've been looking for and enjoy the drive and excitement that comes from it every day of the week.

Let's get started.

The Story of Mr. Jacobs

It haunts him even to this day. It doesn't matter what he does with his time or what he thinks about as the hours pass by, he will always remember the past and he will always feel the pain.

After an emotional fight with his son, Mr. Jacobs stormed out of the apartment and drove home with anger and resentment in his heart. He had no idea that the silence between them would last nearly ten years.

Those are years he can never get back. He can never see his first grandchild crawling along the floor looking for grandpa, never see her take her first step or hear those first spoken words. Never.

All because he couldn't get past his fears and reconcile with his son.

I'm sure he was afraid to make the first move, as was his son. Fault lies on both ends. They were both afraid of being vulnerable and didn't want to risk the pain of rejection.

And that was when the myth entered the picture. Both Mr. Jacobs and his son, along with millions of people around the world, believed in an idea that kept them apart for ten long years.

Had they known the truth, this sad situation never would have taken place. They would have moved past their fears and happily reconciled. But no on ever told them the secret that I'm about to tell you.

The Six-Letter Word - Regret

The myth that cheated Mr. Jacobs and his son of those ten precious years was the belief that fears are better to avoid than regrets.

It's understandable. The things we fear are in our face, chasing us down at this moment. Regrets, on the other hand, are far off and barely noticeable. We can easily feel the pain of confronting our fears, but it's not so easy to know how painful regret will be until we actually experience it.

However, if you're anything like me you already have a few experiences with regret. It's part of life. But we make ourselves forget the pain, we fight to suppress the memories and the feelings so we can get over it and move on.

But what I'm asking you to do is use that pain to make sure it never happens again. Use that pain as incentive to go after what you want with more power and passion than ever before.

Use regret to your advantage.

Right about now you might be asking yourself, 'I know I don't want to deal with the pain of regret, but what if I don't know what I want?' If this is true for you, keep on reading. If not, you can move ahead to the next section.

I can tell you from personal experience that not knowing what you want can be a confusing, frustrating and miserable time. But there is an answer. There are very specific steps you can take to discover what it is that you want, what goals will make you happy.

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The Truth that Will Set You Free

Here's the truth that I want you to remember each and every time you feel hesitant about moving toward your goals:

The pain of regret far outweighs the fears we must face to achieve our goals.

If you can get yourself to believe this truth then you will be driven to succeed every day. Forgetting about everything you can't change in your past, you are currently facing only opportunities for success. And this is such a critical point in your life because one of two forces will win out.

If the fears take control, you never get what you want. If the realization that regret is overpowering and should be avoided at all costs, you will be driven to succeed and get everything you want in life.

So think about what you want right now. What goals are you excited about going after and achieving? Then I want you to think about never getting the chance to make any of them happen. Make the vision as powerful as possible. Think about how terrible the pain of regret would feel and how you would do anything to do it all over again.

Use this fear to drive you forward. I know you don't want to encounter the pain of regret when it's too late to do anything about your goals. So use this idea to make sure it never happens.

This idea alone can help you, but if you want the entire solution to taking control of your life like never before you'll want to learn about 'The Motivated Mind'. If you can follow six simple stages you will be motivated to do whatever it takes to achieve your goals.

By unlocking the power you already have inside your mind and body you can literally change your entire life using the step-by-step program outline in "The Motivated Mind".

The greatest successes in the world use these six steps, and in a few moments you can learn not only what they are but also how to make them a part of your life forever.

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Never again will you deal with the pain of regret if you can realize the truth and use it to drive you toward the life you have always wanted to live. Have an excellent week and remember, never settle for less than you want and never overlook what you already have.

My Best,

Jason M. Gracia

Founder, Motivation123

About the Author

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